(The Hard Truth For The 21st Century Generation Part 2)
Hello, dear visitor! Thank you for returning to my humble blog. I have come here to ramble away about some thoughts I have collected in my head, and only hope they tumble out in some sensical way.
So, we began with our dear sisters and now today I wanna talk to my dear brothers.
Well, unlike the female gender, males have confidence to hustle their own money and to do other things; of which some these confidences are silly and stupid.
On the masculine side, I won’t talk much about gold digging because 80% are visionary and earn their own money. Though many of these young boys are hungry for quick riches, majority are working hard to earn that money but give up when they don’t get it at that speed they desired.
Before I touch on the part which concerns me most about the boy child, I wish to give some advice to these greedy young boys who want quick wealth.
Just like I told our dear sisters, the principle of life is very simple; EASY COME, EASY GO. Unless you are from a rich family, or you are one of the luckiest men on earth, you can never be driving a BMW in your 20s or even 30s just from money you have made after school.
Dear brother, just because your age mate is now driving and he is married, it doesn’t mean you are a failure in life. Different people have different destinies.
There are some who make it in their 20s and die in their 30s or even early 40s. Others make it in their 40s, and live up to their 100s, to see their legacy prosper.
Also, leading a race doesn’t mean you have won it; many have led the race, but end up winning nothing; stop being greedy and trust the system; one step at a time and you shall see how confident each step you take shall be.
Logically speaking, between a running man, and a majestically walking man; if they both trip, the walking man will have less injuries than a running man.
Now let as go to the behaviors of the boy child which are disgusting and apparently, they are currently with quite a number of dudes.
1. NEGATIVE PRIDE
What do I mean by Negative Pride?
There are these kind of men who believe they are good enough for every and any lady they find. My brother, not even the richest men or even the most handsome men in the world are good enough for every lady in the world.
When a lady rejects you, swallow that silly pride and walk away; after all, there are so many women in this planet than you can exhaust. What’s the point of insulting and humiliating a lady because she rejected you?
What does that make you?? A bigger man? A legend??
Hell no! That makes you a small boy with a very small thinking capacity. A boy who doesn’t deserve to ever be recognized as a man and who doesn’t deserve any respect.
A real man is he who acknowledges that nature doesn’t always favor things no matter how good or expensive they are or they look.
Even the best models of technology do get rejected, simply because they ain’t the type of technology the concerned party desires. So if you know you are the kind of guy who insults and humiliates girls/ladies because they rejected you; grow up and have some sense.
2. MONEY PRIDE
There are these men who get a few coins and feel like they now own the world. According to my research, 99% of these very rich men are very humble; but these guys in middle class, with a few coins….. My brother, despite all the money you got, not everything in this world has a price tag. Yes, majority of the women in this generation are after money, but as a man with a few coins, or a man with all the wealth in the world; you will be an idiot to chase after these gold diggers wanting cheap and easy sex just because your money can purchase it.
Behind every successful man, there is a woman; many a times, it is usually the mother, but also a responsible and visionary woman plays a key role in the success of a man.
Instead of chasing every skirt you see on the road while in your middle class car or even that very expensive car, settle down with a visionary woman and see your empire grow beyond the bounds everyone thought it would..
Most men don’t believe in apologizing to a woman when they wrong. You may see that as being a strong man, but truth be told, that’s just a very silly ego. Nobody in this world is perfect, we all wrong and a real man will own up his mistakes despite the consequences. A real man will take responsibility for whatever he does; be a responsible man and not the kind of guy who leaves others to clean up your mess.
Now as I conclude; I wish to make something clear. This is a message to the people who use my stories as their inspiration and mentor.
The stories I write are mainly for fun, but if you are keen enough, they have moral lessons in between. In most of my stories, the main character (Ham) gets it easy with the ladies, but at the end he ends up with regrets and at times he ends up with luck.
It is never too late for redemption and life always grants a 2nd chance. Never give up in life because you failed or got betrayed; instead get up and start all over again stronger than before.
Friends and even family; at times your wives or girlfriends shall betray you, but there is a whole world out there. Life doesn’t halt because you were hurt, so learn to never give up.
For instance, if you open a business and you go a week without selling anything, don’t close it; just be patient and once that business picks, you shall see wonders.
Life is not a race, don’t rush it. And if you fall, rise up and start climbing again.
And finally, to my fellow males; that woman you are with, she ain’t your slave. She has equal rights as you do and you should consider her as your lifetime partner and not your puppet.
So, instead of luring women to love you for what you have, get a woman who loves you for whom you really are. A woman who loves you for whom you are is the kind of woman who can build you an empire.
Dear Brothers and Sisters, remember that you like because, and love despite. You like something because of it’s qualities, but you love something despite it’s flaws.
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