A MESSAGE TO THE BOY CHILD

(The Hard Truth For The 21st Century Generation Part 2)

Hello, dear visitor! Thank you for returning to my humble blog. I have come here to ramble away about some thoughts I have collected in my head, and only hope they tumble out in some sensical way.


So, we began with our dear sisters and now today I wanna talk to my dear brothers.

Well, unlike the female gender, males have confidence to hustle their own money and to do other things; of which some these confidences are silly and stupid.

On the masculine side, I won’t talk much about gold digging because 80% are visionary and earn their own money. Though many of these young boys are hungry for quick riches, majority are working hard to earn that money but give up when they don’t get it at that speed they desired.

Before I touch on the part which concerns me most about the boy child, I wish to give some advice to these greedy young boys who want quick wealth.

Just like I told our dear sisters, the principle of life is very simple; EASY COME, EASY GO. Unless you are from a rich family, or you are one of the luckiest men on earth, you can never be driving a BMW in your 20s or even 30s just from money you have made after school.

Dear brother, just because your age mate is now driving and he is married, it doesn’t mean you are a failure in life. Different people have different destinies.

There are some who make it in their 20s and die in their 30s or even early 40s. Others make it in their 40s, and live up to their 100s, to see their legacy prosper.

Also, leading a race doesn’t mean you have won it; many have led the race, but end up winning nothing; stop being greedy and trust the system; one step at a time and you shall see how confident each step you take shall be.

Logically speaking, between a running man, and a majestically walking man; if they both trip, the walking man will have less injuries than a running man.

Now let as go to the behaviors of the boy child which are disgusting and apparently, they are currently with quite a number of dudes.

1. NEGATIVE PRIDE

What do I mean by Negative Pride?

There are these kind of men who believe they are good enough for every and any lady they find. My brother, not even the richest men or even the most handsome men in the world are good enough for every lady in the world.

When a lady rejects you, swallow that silly pride and walk away; after all, there are so many women in this planet than you can exhaust. What’s the point of insulting and humiliating a lady because she rejected you?

What does that make you?? A bigger man? A legend??

Hell no! That makes you a small boy with a very small thinking capacity. A boy who doesn’t deserve to ever be recognized as a man and who doesn’t deserve any respect.

A real man is he who acknowledges that nature doesn’t always favor things no matter how good or expensive they are or they look.

Even the best models of technology do get rejected, simply because they ain’t the type of technology the concerned party desires. So if you know you are the kind of guy who insults and humiliates girls/ladies because they rejected you; grow up and have some sense.

2. MONEY PRIDE

There are these men who get a few coins and feel like they now own the world. According to my research, 99% of these very rich men are very humble; but these guys in middle class, with a few coins….. My brother, despite all the money you got, not everything in this world has a price tag. Yes, majority of the women in this generation are after money, but as a man with a few coins, or a man with all the wealth in the world; you will be an idiot to chase after these gold diggers wanting cheap and easy sex just because your money can purchase it.

Behind every successful man, there is a woman; many a times, it is usually the mother, but also a responsible and visionary woman plays a key role in the success of a man.

Instead of chasing every skirt you see on the road while in your middle class car or even that very expensive car, settle down with a visionary woman and see your empire grow beyond the bounds everyone thought it would..

3. RESPONSIBILITY

Most men don’t believe in apologizing to a woman when they wrong. You may see that as being a strong man, but truth be told, that’s just a very silly ego. Nobody in this world is perfect, we all wrong and a real man will own up his mistakes despite the consequences. A real man will take responsibility for whatever he does; be a responsible man and not the kind of guy who leaves others to clean up your mess.

Now as I conclude; I wish to make something clear. This is a message to the people who use my stories as their inspiration and mentor.

The stories I write are mainly for fun, but if you are keen enough, they have moral lessons in between. In most of my stories, the main character (Ham) gets it easy with the ladies, but at the end he ends up with regrets and at times he ends up with luck.

It is never too late for redemption and life always grants a 2nd chance. Never give up in life because you failed or got betrayed; instead get up and start all over again stronger than before.

Friends and even family; at times your wives or girlfriends shall betray you, but there is a whole world out there. Life doesn’t halt because you were hurt, so learn to never give up.

For instance, if you open a business and you go a week without selling anything, don’t close it; just be patient and once that business picks, you shall see wonders.

Life is not a race, don’t rush it. And if you fall, rise up and start climbing again.

And finally, to my fellow males; that woman you are with, she ain’t your slave. She has equal rights as you do and you should consider her as your lifetime partner and not your puppet.

So, instead of luring women to love you for what you have, get a woman who loves you for whom you really are. A woman who loves you for whom you are is the kind of woman who can build you an empire.

Dear Brothers and Sisters, remember that you like because, and love despite. You like something because of it’s qualities, but you love something despite it’s flaws.

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Nairobi,a growing empire

we all have had of cities, small and big, great and powerful, with mind blowing destinations, supper good looking nature, innumerable and thrilling building’s sights, roads and amazing people.

But have we had a second thought about and of our very own?. NAIROBI!?. There is no other city i know of that can match the sheer vitality, hospitality, friendliness and mastery of comfort like Nairobi,

Nairobi is an early riser, Nairobi wakes up with a self satisfying stretching of its limbs, Nairobi wakes with a smile roused from her vivacious and visionary dreams, her own volition, for ever time, Nairobi goes to sleep dreaming a dream of an empire, Every morning this great city opens her eyes, fully equipped and ready to make another step, going about the business of making that dream be a reality.

While other cities cling to sleep, to warms of the past, coverlet of their oriental splendor and the luxury of napping,

Nairobi is happy to shake off sleep and stars her agenda for the day,Nairobi has work to do. Nairobi is a EARLY RISER!.

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A MESSAGE TO THE GIRL CHILD The Hard Truth For the 21st Century Generation


For the two years I have been writing, I have come across many different types of people; but the female gender caught my attention the most in the last half an year.

Dear 21st century girls (allow me to call you girls), why are most of you way so lazy, you just wanna get it easy and quick?

Any wise person knows that whatever is easy to get, it is also very easy to lose. When I was growing up, I used to hear women chant “WHAT A MAN CAN DO, A WOMAN CAN DO BETTER.”

What happened to this slogan? Where are these ladies doing better than what men are doing?

In the current generation, a man with money will get any girl/woman he wants, even the already married. For the last about half a decade or so, females have been doing way much better than males in the final exams in school; what happens after these ladies pass the final exams?

Why do we have so many ladies in this era after rich men, yet they all had equal opportunities in school; and ironically, them ladies performing way much better than the male gender.

Are ladies only good at reading and not using the knowledge they get, in real life situations?

Well, I don’t believe so. I think most ladies of this generation have become too impatient, and too greedy for quick riches.

They don’t want to tire creating an empire of their own, they just want easy money in exchange for sex; of which according to the English linguistic, that’s just a sugar coated prostitution.

According to English, exchange of intimacy for material things is basically prostitution; but let us not dwell on that today. Let’s talk about what has changed over the decades with our female gender.

During the era of our mothers and grandmothers, women used to have dignity and respect for their bodies and also the traditions; today them girls are like mobile phones; with enough money, you can get whichever type you want.

This brings us to my big question today; Why are woman of this generation greedy for quick and easy money?

I once posted a quiz on social media, asking ladies what they look for in a man before deciding whether to date him or not, and surprisingly, 98% of the ladies below 35 years old gave answers concerning Materialistic things.

I am not saying that there are no men out there who are after rich women, but the rate at which ladies of this generation are materializing relationships and marriages is alarming.

Dear girl child, money which you have not worked for shall never give you a long term happiness; instead it will turn you into a slave. You will become a commodity with a price tag, and once you have a price tag, then u are as cheap as that car, phone, or whatever commodity you are trading sex for.

If a man cannot buy you with his money, he has nothing else to offer you other than love and respect. I have heard so many ladies curse men, saying how cruel and evil they are, but let us be honest; if I can put a price on you, then how can I ever respect or value you?

A man with money can only respect and acknowledge a woman who makes him feel that his money is useless when it comes to her.

If your parents took you to school and you had an equal chance of education as the male gender, then why go running after the male gender for wealth? What was the point of them taking you to school?

There are ladies out there running empires, while all you are running is your legs chasing after other people’s efforts and hard work; my dear sister, until when shall you chase other people’s achievements? When will you ever accomplish your own achievements? Until when shall you be a parasite??

And just you know, parasites don’t last long on or in their hosts. Imitation is limitation, and limitations bring complications. It is best to be independent with a little you can call your own, than be dependant with a whole world you don’t even own a share.

This message will step on many toes, but truth be told, you can never achieve anything when you enslave yourself to them limitations.

And if the Boychild thinks he is too perfect, the next message shall be for you.

DRAMA OF A CLASS REPRESENTATIVE

Life and Literature

Class representatives officially represent their class, acting as a link between students and staff at the subject level. In serious higher learning institutions, they are aided in their role by university management run associations. This speaks to their importance in fostering academic discourse.

In the university, class representatives are an important aspect in the organisation of the class. Their crucial role is ever overlooked by the administrative structures of the university. The interaction with the students helps to understand the institution of the university as a symbol of knowledge production.

Being a class representative is normally exciting and especially for the first years. However, as you progress, you learn that it is not as good as you thought. Few students manage to pull through the process for continuous semesters. Those who do you got to give it to them, they are strong willed those ones.

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Rescue You – Blog Tour

#rescueyou #womensfiction #romance #cliffwrites #rescuedogs #loveanddogs #harelquin #booklover

Hello friends! Happy 8th of November, can’t believe I’m saying that already. I’m so excited to be bringing you this blog tour (so sorry it’s late, I’ve been super sick with a bad flu)partneringh Harlequin Publishing and partners to read and review books around their release date, and this one was a big treat. Today I’m bringing you Rescue You by Elysia Whisler. This was seriously the sweetest book ever!

RESCUE YOU

Author: Elysia Whisler  

ISBN: 9780778310082

Publication Date: October 27, 2020

Publisher: MIRA Books

BIO: 

Elysia Whisler was raised in Texas, Italy, Alaska, Mississippi, Nebraska, Hawai’i and Virginia, in true military fashion. Her nomadic life has made storytelling a compulsion from a young age. 

She doubles as a mother, a massage therapist and a CrossFit trainer and is dedicated to portraying strong women, both in life and in her works. She lives in Virginia with her family, including her large brood of cat and dog rescues, who vastly outnumber the humans.

BOOK SUMMARY: 

She needs a fresh start. He’s got scars that haven’t healed. With the help of some rescue dogs, they’ll discover that everyone deserves a chance at happiness.

After a year of heartbreak and loss, the only thing keeping Constance afloat is the dog rescue she works at with her sister, Sunny. Desperate for a change, Constance impulsively joins a new gym, even though it seems impossibly hard, and despite the gym’s prickly owner.

Rhett Santos keeps his gym as a refuge for his former-military brothers and to sweat out his own issues. He’s ready to let the funny redhead join, but unprepared for the way she wiggles past his hard-won defenses.

When their dog rescue is threatened, the sisters fight to protect it. And they need all the help they can get. As Rhett and Constance slowly open up to each other, they’ll find that no one is past rescuing; what they need is the right person—or dog—to save them.

REVEALED!!! SIX Questions To Ask Yourself When In A Relationship, “No.4 Is Hard To Ignore”

When you have a partner in your life it’s almost impossible not get warped in their lives. Honestly, it’s so easy to get wrapped up in a romantic relationship that you might even forget to be into yourself. 

But it’s always helpful to take a step back and analyze your partnership, and there are some important questions to ask when dating someone. Depending on how you answer them, it will say a lot about your current love life and where you stand.

Sadly too many people stay in relationships without realizing how truly unhappy they are. You may be so focused on your relationship and making things work that you lose sight of the important things. 

You forget about your wants and needs, and what makes you happy. Or sometimes, you might know deep down inside that this partner isn’t the one for you, but it’s too hard to really look at that magnifying glass.

With that being said, it’s better to be fully aware than lost in the land of denial. It’s time to reevaluate your partnership to see if you two have a solid foundation, or if there are any cracks that needs repairing. 

Ultimately, if you answer these questions and realize your relationship might be headed for a dead end, then it’s time to take the wheel and steer it in the right direction.

  1. Am I Truly Happy?

It’s easy to quickly say a simple “yes” to this question. However, you should dig deeper and truly look at if you’re happy within this relationship. Are you happy on a surface level, or does it go deeper? Are you just as happy as you portray yourself to be on Instagram and Facebook, or is it all a facade? You’re not always going to be happy all the time in a relationship. That’s just not realistic. However, if you have more unhappy days with your partner than happy days, it’s time to take a second look.

  1. Could I Live Without This Person?

One might think I’m going to say that the “best” response is if you answered no, because that means you truly love your partner. However, the opposite is true. Obviously, you should feel extremely sad at the thought of not being with your partner anymore. However, you should absolutely be able to live and survive without him or her. Often, we rely too much on our partner and lose our independence. You want to make sure that as sad as it may be, you could still be OK alone at the end of the day. The relationship you have with yourself is the most important, so make sure you are tending to that as well.

  1. Am I Being Myself?

In the beginning of dating a person, you sometimes show the best version of yourself. Your moodiness doesn’t come out. You’re pleasant in the mornings, when you know you’re far from a morning person. But as time goes on, you should be able to show that not so pretty side. If you can show your somewhat unpleasant sides, then you’re truly being yourself to the max. However, if you are hiding bits and pieces, you may want to start revealing more of the whole you. Because being Mr. or Ms. Nice forever is exhausting.

  1. Are My Needs Being Met?

Occasionally in relationships we forget about our own needs. While we are busy tending to our partner’s wants and desires, we are left slightly unfulfilled. If you are a giver that sometimes forgets to take, you need to become aware of this problem. A relationship is a two-way street and you deserve to have your needs met too.

  1. What Do I Want Out Of This Relationship?

It’s all fun and games until someone gets hurt, or if you two aren’t on the same relationship page. It’s OK to not have an end goal when you’re dating someone. But this has to be OK with both of you. If you know deep down inside that you don’t see a long future together, you need to make sure your significant other has similar expectations.

  1. Am I Able To Speak Up And Communicate?

You can think your relationship is A-OK because you two never argue or fight. However, just because you aren’t talking about issues, doesn’t mean there aren’t any. Can you easily bring up concerns you have with your partner? Can you two work through difficult moments and come together? Or are you sweeping things under the carpet? It’s time to reevaluate your communication with your loved one if you have things you want to say but can’t.

Every relationship is different, but these questions are universal. Evaluate if you’re really, truly happy in your relationship and as an individual, and go from there. It will help you see your partnership clearly.

You always need a chance..

Ever wondered why ,that migraine, stressed out days, insomnia and other anxiety in your daily health and life?,

Here is the answer,

You don’t give yourself a chance to be the version you really are, striving too hard to impress others, letting the world define you, and being a loner

US election: I will be president for all Americans, Joe Biden promises

  • Biden vowed to keep the faith Americans had kept in him
  • The 77-year-old previously served as the 47th vice president of the United States under Barack Obama from 2009 to 2017
  • Biden’s running mate Kamala Harris has made history after becoming the country’s first female vice president-elect
    United States of America President elect Joe Biden has promised to be the president for all Americans whether they voted for him or not.

Joe Biden is the projected winner of the US presidential election.

Introduce Yourself (Example Post)

This is an example post, originally published as part of Blogging University. Enroll in one of our ten programs, and start your blog right.

You’re going to publish a post today. Don’t worry about how your blog looks. Don’t worry if you haven’t given it a name yet, or you’re feeling overwhelmed. Just click the “New Post” button, and tell us why you’re here.

Why do this?

  • Because it gives new readers context. What are you about? Why should they read your blog?
  • Because it will help you focus your own ideas about your blog and what you’d like to do with it.

The post can be short or long, a personal intro to your life or a bloggy mission statement, a manifesto for the future or a simple outline of your the types of things you hope to publish.

To help you get started, here are a few questions:

  • Why are you blogging publicly, rather than keeping a personal journal?
  • What topics do you think you’ll write about?
  • Who would you love to connect with via your blog?
  • If you blog successfully throughout the next year, what would you hope to have accomplished?

You’re not locked into any of this; one of the wonderful things about blogs is how they constantly evolve as we learn, grow, and interact with one another — but it’s good to know where and why you started, and articulating your goals may just give you a few other post ideas.

Can’t think how to get started? Just write the first thing that pops into your head. Anne Lamott, author of a book on writing we love, says that you need to give yourself permission to write a “crappy first draft”. Anne makes a great point — just start writing, and worry about editing it later.

When you’re ready to publish, give your post three to five tags that describe your blog’s focus — writing, photography, fiction, parenting, food, cars, movies, sports, whatever. These tags will help others who care about your topics find you in the Reader. Make sure one of the tags is “zerotohero,” so other new bloggers can find you, too.

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